stuff tv teaches

saw on tv yesterday, some actor lecturing on love to his son.
hmm.. what did he say??
he said, it doesn't mean that you gotta always be with the person you love. it's enough that you keep them in your heart.

~爱一个人不一定要在他们身旁，把他们收在心里就好。。。 ~

其实爱又是什么？是拥有吗？我们又怎么懂那真正是爱呢？
我们所认识的爱，就是从电视机，故事书，看到的爱。那些又是爱吗？难道爱是对那些衡量的？
我认为不是。。

love is a fickle thing
it comes and goes as it pleases
leaving confusion along its path
it offers no lifelong guarantee
yet requires you to give your fragile heart
sometimes it brings a smile
yet at other times it brings more heartache
but happiness is a choice
just like sadness is our choice
i don't know what my life holds
but they say God gives us only this much obstacles
knowing that we have the strength to overcome it
what can't kill you can only make you stronger

i always see this phrase:
Don't ever leave the one you love for the one you like
because the one you like will leave you for the one he loves
but then, well, what if you are just the one he likes
one day he will leave you for the one he loves
so what will you do then?
will life lose all its meaning and glow?
hmm, well, for me, it most probably will.

i also often see this phrase:
it is better to have loved and lost
than to have never loved at all

life is one tricky thing
there's no knowing what may come next
but i suppose if this is my life
the very least i can do
is to face it with a smile~