post from bulletin – guy’s point of view

You might agree with
it, but when it actually happens 96%
of girls dont realize it 'til it is
too late and that guy who did it is so
frustrated that he has moved on to
someone who will take notice.

From a guys point of view:

We don't care if you talk to other
guys.

We don't care if you're friends with
other guys.

But when you're sitting next to us, and
some random guy walks into the room and
you jump up and tackle him, without
even introducing us, yeah, it pisses
us off.

It doesn't help if you sit there and
talk to him for ten minutes without
even acknowledging the fact that we're
still there.

We don't care if a guy calls you, but
at 2 in the morning we do get a little
concerned.

Nothing is that important at 2 a.m.
that it can't wait till the morning.

Also, when we tell you you're pretty/
beautiful/ gorgeous/cute/stunning, we
freaking mean it.

Don't tell us we're wrong.

We'll stop trying to convince you.

One of the sexiest thing about a girl
is her confidence.
Yeah, you can quote me.

Don't be mad when we hold the door
open.
Take Advantage of the mood i'm in.

let us pay for you! dont "feel bad"
about it

We enjoy doing it. It's expected.

Smile and say "thank you."

Kiss us when no one's watching.

If you kiss us when you know somebody's
looking, we'll be more impressed.

You don't have to get dressed up for
us.

If we're going out with you in the
first place, you don't have to feel
the need to wear the shortest skirt
you have or put on every kind of
makeup you own.

We like you for who you are and not
what you are.

honestly, i think a girl looks more
beautiful when she's just in her pj's.
or my tshirt and boxers, not all
dolled up

Don't take everything we say seriously.

Sarcasm is a beautiful thing. See the
beauty in it.

Don't get angry easily.

Stop using magazines/media as your
bible.

Don't talk about how hott Morris
Chesnutt, Brad Pitt, or Jesse McCartney
is in front of us.

It's boring, and we don't care. You
have girlfriends for that.

Whatever happened to the word
"handsome"/"beautiful"

Girls, I cannot stress this enough:if
you aren't being treated right by a
guy, dont't wait for him to
change.ditch him.
sorry,,disgrace to the male population
ass and find someone who will treat you
with utter respect.

Someone who will honor your morals.

Someone who will make you smile when
you're at your lowest.

Someone who will care for you even when
you make mistakes.

Someone who will love you, no matter
how bad you make them feel, or what
you do.

Someone who will stop what theyre doing
just to look you in the eyes....and say
"i love you" ..and actually mean it.

Give the nice guys a chance

Guys repost this if you agree

Girls repost this if you think it's
cute

Every Guy who isn't a jerk will agree
with this, so we hope that all the
girls that read this will repost this

Tips for the less experienced:

*Holdin Hands
Girls :If you want to hold his hand,
gently bump into it a couple of
times.
Guys : Grab it if it happens more than
once.

*Cuddling
Girls : When you want to cuddle with
him, tell him you're cold
Guys : Automatically move closer to
her.

*Movies
Girls : During a movie, if he puts his
arm around you, tilt your head on his
shoulder
Guys : Lift her chin up and kiss her.

*Loving each other
Guys : When she tells you she loves
you,
look deep into her eyes, give her a
peck
on the lips, and tell her you love her
too... And mean it.

*Laying below the stars
Girls : When you're both laying under
the stars, put your head on his chest
and close your eyes as you listen to
his steady heart beat
Guys : Whisper in her ear and link your
hands with hers.

personality test

Personality test from
http://www.quizilla.com/users/sexysnape727/quizzes/whats%20your%20personality%28long%20results%29/


you are....

sweet, innocent and caring
best attribute: your smile
flower: Daisy, fragile and beautiful
you are what would be considered an optimist, always looking for the bright side of things, and always hoping for the best, people love you because you care for the good of others and are very compassionate, dont ever let your amazing smile fade

Movie Review – The pursuit of Happiness

When I first heard about the movie, my first impression was… should be quite boring. But in the end, I found that it was a very touching movie. When I see the father and his kid go through so much hardship for the simple reason that they do not have money, it makes me empathize with all the poor and homeless people in the world. Living comfortably in the world as we do now, the plight of the homeless seems so unreal, yet it is so common in some parts of the world. When you have no money to eat, no home, what can you do? Find a better job? That’s what the father was doing. But while he was doing his internship without pay, they still had to survive right? His drive and believe for a better future is truly touching. I suppose, to achieve great things in life, we have to go through the bitter process first, with faith and courage.

Movie Review – The Break Up

I watched ‘the break up’ by Jennifer Aniston and found it very realistic. However, it was quite sad to see two people who obviously cared about each other do all kinds of hurtful things to each other just because of… pride? Misunderstanding? I liked the ending though. From the show I learnt 2 things.
1) Actually, they did not really have to break up if they were able to give and take in their relationship. Sometimes, each of them want things their way and are so absorbed in their own needs that they fail to see how much their partner is already doing for them. And of course no one is perfect, so we should not just focus on their flaws, but rather, their strong points too.
2) after breaking up, they were able to live on, move on, and live well, achieving their dreams. This might not be that bad either, as they can learn to be independent and are happy at the same time. If fate should meet them up together once again, this time, I believe they would be more mature, independent and tolerant of each other. Hopefully.;p

Semester 3 holidays

This holiday, the only thing I’ve been doing the most is watch Taiwan tv series. I’ve watched devil beside you, love contract, tokyo Juliet, and it started with a kiss. Devil beside you was nice plus lots of eye candy.haha.. love contract was a bit boring, but got eye candy.;p However, I really hate sad endings. sigh.. tokyo Juliet was not bad with lots of nice songs. It started with a kiss was quite funny too, with nice songs also.

We also went to genting to celebrate boon koon and chee kian’s birthday. It was quite a spontaneous idea. Suddenly, there we were. It was so hot there. Surprise surprise! Quite fun too. I drove kee san and kee yuan to serdang, then we picked up wai yean and met the others at serdang ktm station. So along with chee kian, francis, lin hui, shong lap and boon koon, we set out for kl central. After a quick lunch there, we set off for genting, reaching there around 2pm I guess. We went to the theme park and played some, didn’t play some. Chee kian’s eyes nearly popped out when he saw that the karaoke there was only 10 bucks for 4 hours, plus food some more. But this time we steered clear of that section. After the theme park, we went to the casino and played ‘big small’. I lost 10 bucks there. Haha.. finally, we took an extremely hurried dinner at pizza hut and rushed down to catch the last bus. On the cabel, we were so busy taking pictures time flew by without us noticing. Then, we were back home. I was quite nervous driving back myself after 12am. That’s coz by the time I dropped everyone home, it was past 12am. An event left a great impression on me. When we were at the telephone booth there taking pictures, a couple asked me to take a picture for them. What struck me was that they looked so happy together. The feeling between them was so nice, it was like they really wanted to spend time together, had fun together and were so sweet too. I hope one day I will be able to find that feeling too. On the whole, I found this trip quite nice and enjoyable, if not a bit confusing. One letdown was the hot weather in genting though.

必要的虚伪

屋外挂起暴风雨， 屋内却如此的平静。
心内挂起暴风雨， 外表却如此的平静。

redang trip 2007

Altogether it was a great trip, much better than I had hoped.

050507 – We set out a bit late as two friends were held up by traffic jam. The good thing was, since we made up almost half the bus, it waited for us. Up we went onto the bus. I sat with shu yin, with pui leng and chris in front. The guy behind me was quite shocking. When I wanted to lower my seat and asked him whether it was ok, he said something like, Sure. Lower also can, and he’ll give me a back massage. And bus trip there was quite boring, couldn’t really sleep, and whenever I almost dozed off we reached the rest station and had to go down.

060507 – Finally we reached the agency early in the morning and had to wait till 7am to eat our breakfast. The food was ok, but the toilet queue was so long, held up by one guy. The guy sitting behind me was waiting in line before me and shu yin, so we chatted for a while. He was quite nice, friendly. The tea was very tasteless, but the nasi lemak was quite different, a bit sour. I thought it spoilt already, but someone said that that’s the terengganu style. After breakfast we were sent to the jetty. There we girls locked ourselves in the toilet and began the Sunblock frenzy, slathering them on like nobody’s business. Prevention is better than cure I suppose. Pretty soon, the boat was there. It was more like a ferry. They showed us the movie ‘the mask’ while on board and we actually managed to finish the whole show. Of course, in the middle of the journey we climbed up deck and took lots of pictures. It was quite dizzy up there, but the sea breeze was very enjoyable. Pity there was not enough room to sit and just enjoy the breeze.




We reached redang. It was beautiful. But we had to transfer ourselves onto a smaller speedboat, and then climb down the rocking speedboat into the sea and walk onto the sandy beach of redang island. The climbing down was quite scary, but they prepared a wooden stairway, well, something like that, for us to climb down. Sadly for me, just before it was my turn, it broke! So I had to climb down a metal ladder. It went fine, but when I hit bottom, other people started climbing down. No big deal just that the ladder was on my feet. Oh well, I got a bruise for that. It hurt though.




We wandered around before checking in. Our rooms were very close to each other. I shared a room with caroline and hung jen. After lunch, we were supposed to go for our first snorkeling session. The coward I am, I didn’t go. Instead I went exploring along the whole stretch of beach all by myself. It turned out to be a good thing too, so that I had enough time to buy all my souvenirs and my famous rainbow handphone strap, the one that amazed Alfred so much. I was also able to tell them which shop was the cheapest when they had to hurriedly shop for their souvenirs near the end of the trip.

At tea time, I was very lucky that I met them just as they came back. It was more convenient so that we could have tea together. I met that guy again as I was refilling my water bottle. He began asking how come I didn’t go snorkeling, and remarked that I wasn’t wearing my retainer. In fact, he was starting to freak me out. After tea, they took me out to sea at the shallow end to get a hang of the sea. Dinner time was steamboat time. After that, it began pouring heavily, so we went to an activity room where they played pool and darts. We just sat there and chatted. After that, we walked over to redang reef resort to see the blue sand under the moonlight. It was quite amazing and beautiful, but lasted for such a short while.

070507 – we woke up late. Jeannie had to band on our room door to wake us up. After breakfast, we went snorkeling. I actually went this time, thanks to continuous support from shu yin, pui leng and chris. What made me so brave? Partly it was because I really wanted to see the marine park, and partly because chris actually managed to borrow a round tube for me. Actually I felt quite bad cause chris was so nice that he actually carried the tube around for me even though I guess it embarrassed him. Chris and pui leng are just so sweet together, it sets my standard very high. Haha..

Marine park was fun. Hung jen managed to get to know an instructor who tugged me around the sea to see fishes and corals. I even managed to see an eel, with big white teeth. I never knew that eels have teeth. At first I felt a bit bad that I had to burden the instructor, but after that I found out that I, or at least my tube, became the handle of many other people. After lunch, we buried hung jen in sand, then went to the shade to chit chat and play, quite cruel of us. Haha.. then, snorkeling again. This time it was at deep sea and was quite scary. Everywhere I looked, it was the sea. My goggles kept fogging up, and the sea was so choppy and turbulent that I became very dizzy. Besides, it was very scary and the sea was much deeper. Good thing the instructor was around again. When I climbed down from the ship, I was pretty terrified actually as my feet could not touch ground. Good thing chris was already down there and handed me my life-saver, the tube!

That night we had bbq for dinner, then we celebrated a friend’s birthday by surprising him at the beach where everyone was dancing. It was like a beach club. After that, we sat around and talked about snakes, since they wouldn’t talk about ghost stories. Personally, I think snakes are scarier than ghosts, since they can actually be around us any time.

080507 – it was all going to end soon. We had breakfast, cleared up, checked out, went to the cheap souvenir shop, then it was time to go home. This time around, they showed the night at the muzium. After that, it was the bus trip home again. They showed mr. bean’s the holiday and a Chinese movie on the bus. The guy was sitting on the same row as me and shu yin this time and was really freaky coz he kept looking at our direction with his round round eyes. But I guess later on he guesses that we were freaked out, coz he ignored us. We reached vista very late. First I went to shu yin’s house and surfed the net while she bathed. Then she came over and we ‘mapou’ together.

I would really like to thank all my friends for their support and concern, especially in encouraging me to snorkel to make the redang trip more worthwhile.
Thank you pui leng and shu yin and chris for all your support and care. Thank you pui leng and shu yin, for holding on to me while I was at sea. Thank you chris, for carrying my tube around for me. Thank you to all of them for helping me get on and down from the speedboat, and teaching me how to float. Haha.. good thing I held on to pui leng’s hand so tightly, or I would me floating god knows where.;p thank you shu yin for sleeping over with me on the last day when I was alone at home.

Thank you caroline and hung jen for being good roommates during this trip. Caroline taught me so many exercise techniques, I had better do them regularly!;p hung jen grabbed me while I was drifting in the sea. Both of them also stuck close to me during the deep sea snorkeling session. And hung jen got back my specs for me from the capten. Thanks a lot to both of them.

Thanks too to everyone else for their concern after they learnt that I don’t know how to swim.

May our next trip be as enjoyable as this one!=)

烟花

烟花
如此的美
却如此的短暂

for a friend~

To my beloved friend
Who has left for a better place

Silently you entered my life
Silently you left
You were a complete stranger one day
Then we clicked and entered into a beautiful friendship
Much laughter we shared together
Hard times we survived together
You taught me a lot of things
Courage… love… friendship…
How not to be so stubborn in life…
That I can’t be so selfish and spoilt and expect everything in life to go my way…
How to really care for a friend…
How to make new friends…
How to be responsible…
How to respect my parents…
How to give without expecting anything in return…
How to grow up and not be a baby forever…
How to chase after my dreams and really do something about it instead of wishing for it...
How not to be so stressed up about small things and just do my best…
You taught me how to be a friend
You showed me what a friend is
You taught me how to be happy,
By not focusing on problems, so that they would not become problems anymore
You taught me how to hold my temper
And not be so emotional
You taught me not to be so ‘dead’
To be short and precise
To appreciate my parents
You taught me that life is just what life is and to deal with it
That it comprises of both happiness and sadness
That it is the process that matters, not the product
That we have only one life and we must live it to the fullest
You showed me that I am stronger than I think
You taught me not to be afraid
Helped me through troubled times
You were there as I grew up
As I matured from the childish brat I was to who I am now
Hopefully a better person
You taught me that happiness can be found in small things
Taught me about humanities
About pleasures in helping other people
Simple pleasures which are so hard to see
But why did you leave without telling me?
Why did you not even say goodbye?
I woke up one day and you were gone
Just like that
Without even saying goodbye
And knowing that I will never ever see you again in this lifetime hurts
I miss talking with you
Miss everything about you
Miss knowing that I have a friend who really cares bout me
And now I’m on my own again
I will never forget all that you’ve taught me
And I will always keep memories of you close to my heart
I am who I am because of you
For that I am forever grateful
But the time has come for me to stand on my own two feet
I’m sure you will be happy for me wherever you are
And that you are happy
All I have of you left is just memories
Memories of better times
But I will be someone whom you will be proud of
I won’t let you down


悄悄的我到来。。
正如我悄悄的离去。。

quiz

Enough of all that mushy mushy stuff
So, what have we got here??
Let’s take a quiz…!!

It makes sunny days pour
It makes rainy days shine
It’s always a risk, which can tear you apart
Yet, without it, you can’t say that you really lived

It makes you extraordinarily happy
Yet it makes you ache in places you didn’t even know existed
It comes so quick and takes you unaware
It leaves so quick leaving you with a lifetime to miss

It creates memories for you to cherish and hold
Yet it is also these memories, which haunt you on lonely nights alone
It feels so real
Yet sometimes it is so hard to believe it exists

It exists
But is just so hard to find
When you try to grap hold of it
It nearly always slip right out of your grasp

Sometimes you think you have it
Sometimes you wish you have it
Sometimes you know you had it
Sometimes you wish you held on to it

It is just so hard to grasp
There is never a guarantee
There is no life warrantee
In fact, it molds your life
It makes you grow up
And hopefully, it makes you a better person for it

What is it?
You’re the smart one
You guess!=)